As someone who’s never been obsessed with makeup, I never imagined that I would fall for eyelash extensions. While I’ve always enjoyed enhancing my complexion with sheer foundations, dewy highlighters, and soft blushes, I’ve only ever used mascara on special occasions, like birthdays, big meetings, or events. So, the thought of booking an appointment for eyelash extensions before my wedding seemed totally out of character. But despite the growing debate about their popularity, I ended up loving them far more than I expected.
I first tried eyelash extensions three weeks before my wedding to “test them out.” In less than a month, I went back for two more appointments: one the day before my flight for the wedding, and another right before my honeymoon. At that point, I was hooked. They felt more glamorous than I could have imagined, and it quickly became something I couldn’t get enough of.
Here’s what I learned about eyelash extensions: they provide a level of glam that mascara just can’t replicate. They give you the most natural, thick, perfectly curled lashes, and they last all day, every day. It’s not just about the look—there’s something about having flawless lashes 24/7 that feels almost addictive. When I looked into the mirror after my second appointment, with the boldest set of lashes, I felt like I could take on the world.
However, there’s a lot more to eyelash extensions than meets the eye. They require care, time, and investment. If you’re thinking about giving them a try, here’s what you need to know.
What to Expect During the Appointment
Before your eyelash extension appointment, it’s important to show up with a clean face. This means no makeup, mascara, or even curled lashes. If you’ve curled them before, the crease near your lash root might make it difficult for the lash artist to apply extensions properly, leaving the final look less than perfect. You also want to avoid anything that could interfere with the adhesive, like oily skincare or waterproof makeup. In fact, try not to wear waterproof makeup for at least a week before your appointment, as it can leave a film that prevents the lashes from sticking well.
Be prepared for a lengthy appointment. Eyelash extensions can take up to two hours to apply, especially if you’re getting a refill. Refills require removing old extensions and cleaning your natural lashes before new ones can be added. It’s a relaxing process, but you’ll need to lie still for an extended period, so be ready for that.
Customization Is Key
Eyelash extensions are not a one-size-fits-all treatment. They can vary in price, depending on your location and salon, but the cost typically starts around $120 and can go up to $300 or more. The price depends on the quality of the lashes and the complexity of the look you’re going for. It’s important to choose extensions that match your eye shape, lash length, and personal preferences.
You’ll also need to select the material for your lashes. Most salons offer silk or faux mink options. Silk lashes are shiny and more dramatic, while faux mink lashes are softer and more natural. Lash artists will also ask about the curl type you want. “J” curl is the most subtle, while “C” and “D” curls are more dramatic, creating an upward curve.
Another consideration is the shape of your lashes. If you want to achieve a more open, round-eyed look, the artist may suggest placing the longest lashes in the middle of your eyes, rather than opting for the typical cat-eye shape. A great lash artist will mix different lengths of lashes to create a natural, wispy look.
Avoid Cluster Lashes
Some salons may offer “3-D” or cluster lashes, which are made up of three lashes glued together. Although they might seem like an easy fix for sparse lashes, they can be too heavy for your natural lashes and can lead to breakage. It’s important that each extension is applied to one natural lash. If the extensions look too thick or feel heavy, they might be damaging your natural lashes.
You Can Play with Color
Lash extensions don’t have to be limited to black. If you’re looking to add a fun twist to your lashes, some salons offer colored extensions in shades like pink, blue, or purple. These can add a playful pop of color to your everyday look, especially for special occasions or when you just want to experiment with something new.
Expect a Learning Curve
At first, eyelash extensions might feel a bit strange. It takes a day or two to get used to them, but they’re more comfortable than strip lashes. They will also affect the way you sleep—especially if you’re a side or stomach sleeper. To avoid crushing your lashes while you sleep, consider using a travel pillow or other supports to keep you sleeping on your back.
Adjust Your Skincare Routine
With eyelash extensions, you’ll need to make some adjustments to your skincare routine. Avoid using oily products, as they can weaken the glue and cause the lashes to fall off more quickly. If you’re used to applying eye cream at night, try switching to the morning instead, to avoid it migrating into your lashes. Opt for an oil-free makeup remover, and if you’re removing makeup, it’s best to use a cotton swab to gently clean around your eyes rather than a cotton pad, which can leave fibers behind.
Relearn Your Makeup Routine
After getting eyelash extensions, you’ll probably want to skip mascara altogether, as it can weaken the extensions. Stick to eye makeup formulas that won’t damage your lashes. For example, use gel or liquid eyeliner instead of pencil liners that might tug at your roots. Also, avoid loose powder or glittery eye shadow, which can build up at the roots of your lashes and cause breakage over time.
Washing Your Face With Extensions
Washing your face with eyelash extensions can be tricky, but with a little practice, you’ll get the hang of it. To avoid damaging your lashes, lean your face into the sink, gently splash water on your face, and use a mild cleanser to clean your lower face and forehead. Avoid rubbing or scrubbing around your eyes, as this can cause lashes to fall out. After cleaning, use your ring fingers to gently wet and cleanse the area around your eyes.
Cleaning Your Lashes
Because you won’t be washing your eyes as thoroughly as you normally would, you’ll want to make sure you’re regularly cleaning the area. Use a mixture of distilled water and baby shampoo (tear-free) to gently clean your top and bottom lids. This helps remove dirt, dust, and makeup residue that can build up at the lash line.
Brush Your Lashes Daily
Just like you brush your hair, you should also brush your lashes. Use the spoolie provided by your lash artist to gently comb through your lashes each morning. This will help keep them in place and prevent them from looking wild after waking up or showering.
Never Remove Extensions Yourself
While you might be tempted to pick at your lashes if they’re starting to come loose, never attempt to remove eyelash extensions on your own. Doing so can damage your natural lashes. The only safe way to remove extensions is by going back to your lash artist for a professional removal session. If you’d prefer, you can simply wait for the extensions to fall out naturally.
Conclusion
Eyelash extensions are a fun way to enhance your natural beauty and feel extra glamorous. However, they come with their own set of maintenance and care requirements. If you’re willing to make the commitment and take care of them, you can enjoy gorgeous lashes that give you that extra confidence boost every day.
